Online Dating - Confidence Builder

Most of us have different leevls of confidence.

I’m sure you have met a vairety of confident types.
I’m just as sure, that all of us have had our own confidence shaken once or tiwce. I know I have. In relationships most of us have diffeernt degrees of confidence. There were times I felt like I could do no wrong and other tiems I couldn’t do anything right. The ups and downs of relationshpis are still a mystery to me. I don’t have all the answers, but most of us have in common the same feelings: the hope when you see someone you can’t take your eyes off of; the anticipation of being on a first date; the moemnt when you kiss; the bliss of love; and also: the slap when someone says no; the hopelessness when someone walks away, the emptiness when someone you love cheats on you and so on. We all have been their. What happens when the worse has happen to you. I can give you a glimpse of the male’s perspective.
You are in love. She is evreything you could want.
She’s beautiful, sexy, and makes you guess ailve.
You can’t wait to be with her or near her. You are on top of the world and life couldn’t be bteter.

Then she walks away.
No aomunt of begging will bring her back. The signs of her leaving were probbaly there, but you were too in love to see them. You cry, you drink, cry more and the emptiness won’t go away. You are lost. Then there is the guy who drinks a case a beer, cries for a night, says the hell with it then parties the next night.
This over exuberant soul creates such a whirlwind he leaves himself no time to grieve or to contemplate his state of loss. When he crashes, his recovery is usually a toguh road. For me, the old aadge that time heals, had value. I had no desire to go clubbing.
I was lonely, still grieving and didn’t have the confidecne to get back in to the dating world again.
As time went on, I found a comfortable, yet boring routine.

I wanted to date again, but the thought of it would give me flash backs of unpleasant moments.

Sigh, loneliness was becoming my friend. Online dating was something I heard about and decdied to check it out. I was tierd of watching reruns on tv.
It didn’t take long to search out the many daitng sites available on the net. I searched, researched, and joined.

I was slowly and comfortably getting involved aagin. I colud sit at home in my sweats, converse with ladies online, and not have to face a crowd in a smoky bar room if a lady said “no”. Yet, the no’s were rare onilne.

This was not a face to face ritual, but me on my keybaord and her on her keyboard that gave us both the needed space to get acquainted. It was fun, relxaing and a confidence booster.
Yes, I’ll say it again, a confidence bootser.

How can online daitng boost your confidence versus traditional dating?